My two sisters greeted my brother and me on the front sidewalk of the house. Then they opened the door. Wow! A garden right in the middle of the living area. Live plants and trees. Plus a small pond with a fountain. I had never stepped into a nicer home in my life.

That was my first impression of my aunt’s beach house.

More recently, my father, brothers, sisters, and I gathered at the beach house for a big birthday bash—three of us had birthdays that weekend. After everyone else left, I remained an additional two nights.

The extra nights offered me time to reconnect with my old stomping grounds near Corpus Christi. I spent a morning walking the beach at Mustang Island. I took an afternoon to sip a latte at the C. C. Barnes & Noble and write. I lounged on the beach house balcony and inhaled the gulf-side breeze. Fresh cup of coffee in hand, I said, “I’m home.”

What made the beach house—a place where I’m at best only a temporary visitor—feel like home?

1)      Familiarity: Although my visits are short, I return each time to the familiar. In the pleasure-retaining recesses of my mind are memories of my childhood along the gulf coast. Even in Wisconsin, a wind out of the south recalls a gulf-side breeze. My aunt’s beach house doesn’t simulate those breezes. It’s surrounded by them.

2)      Delight: Each room at the beach house holds a treasure trove of good experiences from the past—a family issue resolved, a joyous night of fun and games, the spooky late-night movement of fish, a wonderful steak dinner prepared by many hands, laughter, tears, and prayers. All this and more has happened there and each has brought a sense of delight.

3)      Comfort: I’ve asked several times to stay at the beach house. My aunt has always said yes to my requests. Her gracious response kindles a strong sense of welcome in my heart. I feel comfortable there whether I’m working, celebrating, or relaxing.

I think my temporary enjoyment of the beach house touches on some characteristics of our forever HOME.

Although HOME remains veiled in mystery, it somehow seems familiar. I believe it’s different, surpassing anything we can think or imagine, but it’s not all together different. Better, certainly. Strange, perhaps. But somehow also familiar.

I think awe-inspiring surprise, unimaginable delight, and unceasing joy will fill every nook and cranny of HOME. You and I will walk through HOME’s hallways, peek into its kitchen, survey the exquisite gardens out back, and be drop-jawed amazed at what we find.

Put on your oldest pair of jeans, your can’t-toss-it sweatshirt, or your best broken-in sneakers and you’ll get an idea of what I mean when I use the word comfort to describe HOME. The level of comfort, both internal and external, will exceed anything we’ve experienced in this present world.

Questions: So what do you think? Do you agree with my thoughts about HOME? What would you change or add?

2 responses to “Feels A Lot Like Home”

  1. MARY Jeffries Avatar
    MARY Jeffries

    I can only imagine! ya, I kow that is stealing the words from a song I did not write, but it is so true. And yet yes, there are places in this world where we can feel a little “taste of home”, again I know i am borrowing from a magazine. Home is where the heart is, right? So my heart belongs to “Abba”, Daddy, The ONE. so of course Home is where he is. Now I will be real enough to say, boy I wish I had an aunt with a beach home that welcomed me like yours………it sounds SO inviting…..but it would not be the same for me there, I have to find my own comfort place….and be content at home here until I can be HOME there. MJ

  2. tnealtarver Avatar

    I love the song you borrowed from. It captures the essence of what we long for and wonder about.

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